How many times have you found yourself in the middle of a fight, wondering what in the world you were fighting about in the first place? Most of the time we react, and think afterwards. What would happen if we took a moment to consider things and options, and barely then act? Not taking action is not a bad thing in itself, if it saves a fight with anyone. And most of the time, not getting a reaction out of you will upset the other even more. Whatever you do, make sure you think first and then act, not react.